Prepare for Resolution Barriers to Stay on Track
2017 is underway and you’ve made changes to begin taking better care of yourself. Many are still thinking and talking about it, but you’re actually doing it! Good for you! To encourage your great moves let’s look ahead and prepare for barriers so you can push through it and reach your goal.
Barrier #1: Finding “New Normal”
Reaching for new goals requires sacrifice and that sacrifice is often your familiar routines. While you know this will happen we often are surprised how uncomfortable it is to be stuck between our old behaviors and our new ones. This is where many bail out and give up, fleeing back to their comfort zone. It will take time so stay strong, review your goals and keep on the path. A new and better “normal” is right around the corner.
Barrier #2: Feelings vs. Discipline
There is a place for feelings but they must not determine your actions if you want serious results. You can’t wait until you “feel” like doing something. You sign up for it and do it regardless. Then, when temptations and old preferences come knocking, your self-discipline will take over and kick some butt.
- There will be another time for that glass of wine but not tonight because it’s not part of the plan.
- Your bed is exceptionally warm and cozy but you must get up for that scheduled workout. Your goals and your workout
buddy are counting on you.
- You’re too busy to make the phone call to your friend or family member, but you committed to investing in your relationships this year. Act like it and make the call.
Do the things that move you closer to what you want. Make this season about discipline even at the cost of a little fun or comfort.
Barrier #3: Over-doing it
You aren’t seeing results quick enough. Fair enough, but don’t be too quick to add more work. Of course we want all of the change now but often speeding up the timeline can add to injury, and that will crush your momentum. Create a timeline to your goal so you can check your progress and stay encouraged. If you are on schedule celebrate and enjoy your success. At this pace you will arrive right on time!
Barrier #4: Comparison
You’re making progress and it’s exciting BUT your friend is doing better than you. Good for you AND good for them! We are so quick to compare and it’s not fair to anyone! A win for your friend is not a loss for you. Exchange high-fives and keep kicking butt.
The only person you should compare yourself to is the person you were yesterday.
You’re doing great! Stick to your plan and gain confidence with every successful day. It may look like a mountain now but the view from the top will be worth it.
Yes, the items and rankings on this list are debatable. But it is supported by years of working with real people. Please stay encouraged and focused on your goals. Know that your results will take time, and with intentional steps they will become a reality if you stick with it!